Life Update

I hope this finds everyone well with a busy life and working a lot I dont have time to do much of anything besides work and sleep but I thought that I would let everyone know that I am doing better and that things are slowly getting better day by day. I have some exciting news or at least I think that its exciting. I got contacts kast Thursday and I am really enjoying them. Yes as many of you know I have wore them on and off but now they have became more advanced and they are a lot easier for me to wear now.

Some other news the weather here in Arizona is still hot but its changing slowly but surely and getting somewhat cooler than it does in the middle of the summer and believe me I am looking forward to the cooler weather because I work outside it the heat at the copper mine here in Safford. I am also looking forward to the trip that I am planning to come home for Christmas to see everyone.

The happenings in the last couple of days.

I am doing better and getting used to being alone. Its kind of nice to be able to do what I want when I want and if I want to sleep in and do absolutely nothing for once I can do that and not get yelled at for it or be called lazy or whatever he used to call me.

As for my job I am still working quite a bit and that keeps me busy because then I dont have time to think of TJ and the negative things that he used to do to me. I miss my family and all but I have decided that I need to branch out on my own and decide what I really want to do with my life and I really like Arizona and the fact that I never have to deal with snow. Thedre is a place to stay for anyone that wants to come.

Today is a new day and lets hope that things start to get better. I have decided that things are for the better that TJ and I are apart because all he did was drag me down and make me miserable even though through the first part of our relationship we had a great marriage. I work two jobs now because I am so bored because I have nothing to do with my spare time anymore so that is why I chose to get another job.

I am happier now because I have had to make myself happy and realize their is life outside of being miserable and not being able to do the things that I want to do and when I want to do them. As for everything else I am planning a trip home at Christmas time and I know that I am going to freeze because I am used to the warm weather down here but it will also be nice to see all the family and to just relax and do nothing for a few days.